2014/12/24

盧旺達 原來並不是只有大屠殺


盧旺達 永不磨滅的傷痛
http://www.backpackers.com.tw/forum/showthread.php?t=1364886

盧旺達 原來並不是只有大屠
http://www.backpackers.com.tw/forum/showthread.php?t=1349972

盧旺達 Nyungwe 國家公園 ~~ 住宿分
http://www.backpackers.com.tw/forum/showthread.php?t=1352976

我在盧旺達遇見了長頸鹿 




尋找非洲部落土著的足跡


2014/12/17

背包旅行教會我的六件事

想要迅速成長,那需要參加甚麼個人成長課的,一個人去一趟背包旅行吧!

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Ochivaye Dreams 中東空姐 繼續流浪+尋夢去


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1.         獨立能力
生於這個世代的年青人是幸福的一代,常常活在別人的護蔭之下,萬千寵愛在一身,甚麼事情都有別人幫忙,甚麼事情都不懂,我,就是一個很好的例子。怎麼煮飯,怎麼做菜,怎麼生火,怎麼做清潔,基本生活所需從小到大都不用做,也不會做。直到一個人在外生活,沒有親人依賴,凡事親力親為,才慢慢學懂自己的事自己做,不懂便去學習,或是請教別人。

2.         解決難題
一個人在路上,每天都會面對大大小小的難題和挑戰。怎樣到達某個地方?在那裏坐車?在那裏轉車?在那裏下車?迷路了怎麼辦?遇到壞人怎麼辦?找不到旅館怎麼辦?餐廳沒有菜單怎麼辦?買東西的時候雞同鴨講怎麼辦?上厠所但沒人看顧行李怎麼辦?到最後才發現,原來船到橋頭自己直,世間上也沒有永遠通用的答案,同一個問題在不同場合發生都需要新的方法,腦筋,最重要要學會不停急轉彎。

3.         發掘潛能
原來,從前以為自己甚麼都不會,甚麼都不行都不是真確的。原來自己也有很多長處的,原來自己也有藝術天份的,原來自己寫的文字、畫的圖畫、拍的相片也有人會讚許和欣賞的,原來自己也可以烹調幾道中菜的,原來自己也是一個勇敢的女生來的。

4.         認識自我
一個人來到陌生的國度、荒蕪的環境,不知不覺間有很多自我對話的機會和時候。內心的聲音會不其然響起,學習聆聽自己的訴求,會發覺自己原來有很多從不知道或早被忽略的感受,也慢慢懂得自己真正的喜惡,不再像從前那樣只會滿足別人的需要,附和別人的訴求。

5.         溝通技巧
雖然自己是一個極度內向的人,但一個人在外也會感到沉悶和想和別人聊天的時候。怎樣和陌生人自我介紹,怎樣打開話題,怎樣延長討論,甚至怎樣終止對話都是非常重要的溝通技巧。然後,遇到困難也必須跟別人請教啊,路在口邊是千真萬確的。迷路了要怎麼走,目的地怎麼到達,那裏有便宜好吃的飯店,原來答案通通在左近,打開心扉和陌生人溝通,會發覺旅遊書本都是多餘的東西。

不過,溝通並不是只有言語上的,來到沒有共同語言的地區,怎樣用身體語言去表達自己的意思,面部表情去表達自己的感受,遇到天真無邪的小孩子怎樣表達關懷,遇到不懷好意的色鬼怎樣用眼神把他殺死,等等等等。

6.         領袖才能
甚麼東西都學懂了,都變成一個多才多藝的才俊了,一邊旅行一邊寫旅遊心得和大家分享,回家後有機會的話還可以出書辦演講,還不是當旅行領袖的好材料嗎,哈哈~~

想要迅速成長,那需要參加甚麼個人成長課的,一個人去一趟背包旅行吧!


Mwanza, Tanzania - Nov 2014

2014/12/13

Ochivaye Dreams 16­­ – Dream of Sharing Rwanda to the World of a Rwandese Tourism Warden 夢想專訪16 –盧旺達國家公園主管的旅遊大使夢

“Yes I can”,......... everything can be achieved if staying optimistic.
「我可以的」....... 只要保持樂觀,沒有事情是不能成就的。

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I was arranged a trip to visit Nyungwe National Park by the Rwanda Development Board, and was taken cared of by Kambogo, the Tourism Warden at the Park during my stay.

Kambogo wore a heartful smile all the time, and I could always feel his sincerity and passion. He shared he is now living a happy life because he has been achieving what he planned. He love his job at Nyungwe National Park very much.

Knowledge is the Power
Growing up in Kitabi, Kambogo came from a poor family with 7 siblings. His mom told them if you want to develop you have to study. He saw successful people around and he had confidence he could do the same. At last his siblings just finished the basic primary education and are now living simple village life, while he was the only one went to higher studies.

In University Kambogo was majoring in Geography and Languages, and was a Secondary School teacher for 2 years after graduation. He thought if he could teach students he could also teach tourists. The basic requirement for a tour guide was degree holder and good communication skills. Kambogo had good proficiency in English and French. When he saw the advertisement in guiding, he applied and passed successfully.

The Road to the Tourism Industry
Kambogo started as a tour guide without any related knowledge. He liked his job and was motivated to learn from his colleagues about different tourism products. There was also job training to facilitate. Through guiding tourists Kambogo was performing well and got promoted to be a professional guide. It was another challenge for him as he needed to learn new skills for the new position. However, he saw it as an opportunity for him to go further. In 2009 he went to South Africa for 3 months to learn the basic tourism management skill, and to Japan for 1 month training too.

After working at Nyungwe National Park for 8 years, Kambogo admitted he never thought of working in the other 2 National Parks. Nyungwe is a good school with very rich biodiversity, plants and primates. The most important thing was there was opportunity for him to have promotion and training.

Realization of Own Dream
Through working in tourism management, Kambogo kept thinking how to perform and how to equip himself further. He got skills and training in tourism. He likes working in a multi-cultural environment. His insights came, he decided to set up a private tour company to sell Rwanda to the world.

So what would be the basic requirements to have his own company? Kambogo thought. First he would need a driving permit, so he went on learning driving. He needed further studies, so he spent 3 years in a tourism school. He wanted to have his own house, so he worked with the bank to sort things out. Kambogo enjoys making short plans and he feels satisfied once they are achieved.

The next plan is to start his company within 3 years. Kambogo needs to have ideas what packages he needs, so he will need to talk to successful person in the industry, to gather information and to get new ideas. He will then need to start the basics like the websites for the company. The last but not least, is to be ready to kick off.

Helping Himself while Helping Others
Nyungwe area is one of the most populated area in Rwanda with more than 500persons/ km2,which is also a sign of poverty. Kambogo needs to think how local people can also benefit as more tourists come to visit the park, so he decides to open a community based tourism company. Visitors can learn about people’s culture, their normal way of living, traditions, handicrafts, dance, etc. At the moment there are less than 3 Eco-tour companies in the whole country, and Kambogo believes it is the best way to bring direct benefit to the local communities.

Why risking to start a private company than working comfortably in a government office? Kambogo shared there are 2 advantages. First thing is he can continue developing himself by getting new skills and experiences in tourism, at the same time sustaining his family. Second advantage is he can contribute selling and telling the good images of his own country, landscapes, hills, gorilla, chimpanzees, peace, cleanliness and smiles.

Rwanda is still a young destination with only 3 national parks, and very few tourism resources developed yet. Kambogo believes there are still a lot of opportunities to help people to understand Rwanda. He wish Nyungwe will be a famous tourist destination in years to come, with good hotels and a lot of tourism activities available.

“Yes I can”, Kambogo shared with me his favorite quote. He believes everything can be achieved if staying optimistic.


At last, Kambogo gave me a traditional wood carved handicraft as the present for exchange. It was a woman with traditional hair cover and clothes, holding a traditional Rwandese pot, with either milk or beer inside, to her husband. It is a respect for the wives to do this gesture to the husbands in Rwanda culture. Just like the present itself, Kambogo wishes to introduce his country culture to the world.

盧旺達旅遊局給我安排了一個Nyungwe森林國家公園之旅,負責接待我的是公園主管Kambogo。相處數天,常常看見他面上掛著從心而發的微笑,我可以感受到他對工作的誠意和熱情。Kambogo說,現在生活過得很愉快,他可以成就自己的計劃,也十分喜歡自己的工作。

知識就是力量
在農村長大,全家有七個兄弟姐妹,媽媽說要有一番作為必須讀好書。看見周圍的成功人士,Kambogo有信心自己也可以做得到,當其他兄弟姐妹只完成小學教育,過著簡單的農村生活時,最終只有他一人完成大學學歷。

在大學主修地理和語文,畢業後當了兩年中學教師。他想,假如自己有能力任教學生,為甚麼不可以任教遊客呢?當導遊最低資格是大學畢業和有良好溝通能力,他擅長英文和法文,當看見導遊招聘廣告,他立即申請並成功受聘。

踏上旅遊業之路
剛入職的時候完全沒有相關旅遊業知識,但Kambogo熱愛他的工作,主動跟同事學習,公司也提供培訓。透過接待遊客,由於工作表現良好他被晉升為專業導遊,要學習更多的技能,不過,他視挑戰為一個進步的機會。2009年他到南非三個月接受旅遊業管理培訓,之後又到日本一個月受訓。

Nyungwe國家公園工作了八個年頭,卻從來沒想過要到另外兩個國家公園工作,因為這裏有多樣植物和靈長類動物,是一間很好的學校,最重要是有晉升和受訓的機會。

發現自己的理想
透過擔任旅遊業管理工作,Kambogo不斷思考怎樣繼續進步和裝備自己。有旅遊業相關培訓和技能,又喜歡在不同文化的環境工作,他有了新的啟發,他決定要成立自己的旅行社,把盧旺達推銷給世界。

那麼需要甚麼基本條件才能成立自己的公司呢?Kambogo第一樣想到的是考取駕駛執照,於是他去學車。他需要更多的資歷,於是他又花了三年修讀旅遊。他想有自己的房子,於是他跟銀行商討可行的方法。Kambogo喜歡作短期計劃,每當計劃實踐後他都感到很滿足。

下一個計劃,是三年內開辦旅行社。他需要知道有甚麼類型的旅遊項目可以提供,他要跟行內有經驗的成功人士詳談,收集資料和獲得啟發。然後,是製作網頁,最後,就是開業。

助人 自助
這個Nyungwe地區是全國其中一個人口密度最高的地區,每平方公里超過五百人居住,這也代表著貧困。當越來越多遊客到訪國家公園,怎樣同時間令當地人受惠呢?Kambogo決定開辦一家社區為本的旅行社。訪客可以了解人們的文化、日常生活的方式、傳統、手工藝、舞蹈等等。現時全國只有三家社區為本的旅行社,他相信這是令當地人最直接得益的方法。

為甚麼要開辦私人公司不安安定定打政府工呢?Kambogo說有兩個好處,第一是可以繼續磨練自己,學習旅遊業的新技能和經驗,同時也可以養妻活兒。第二是可以向別人推銷自己國家美好的東西,群山美景野生動物和平潔淨和有善微笑。

盧旺達總共有三個國家公園,暫時只有很少旅遊項目,仍是一個很年輕的目的地。不過,Kambogo相信這是一個機會讓別人認識盧旺達,他希望Nyungwe國家公園有朝一日會是一個著名的旅遊景點,有很好的酒店和旅遊配套。

「我可以的」,Kambogo跟我分享他最愛的座佑銘,他相信只要保持樂觀,沒有事情是不能成就的。

最後,Kambogo送給我一個木雕手工藝品作交換禮物,那是一個頭戴傳統頭飾,身穿傳統衣著,手持一個傳統容器的婦女木雕。Kambogo說那個容器裏面有可能盛戴著牛奶,又或是啤酒,在盧旺達的傳統文化裏,那代表妻子給丈夫的一種尊重。這份禮物,跟Kambogo的夢想一樣,希望把自己國家的文化跟世界各地的人分享。


2014/11/17

Ochivaye Dreams 15­­ – Dream of Traveling the World of an American Travel Journalist 夢想專訪15 –美國旅遊記者的環遊世界夢

“Once you take a gap year, you are addicted to it and knows it is not that hard to go back to work, or to reintegrate, or to find a place to live. How easy it is to leave things behind, and one can do it again anytime anywhere.”
只要你曾經經歷過間隔年,你就像上了癮一樣,因為你知道回去找工作,或是重新融入社會,或是找一個地方居住,通通都不是那麼困難的事情。放下出走其實是一件很容易的事,何時何地都可以重新開始。

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During the 2 weeks I volunteered in DART House, a Girls’ Home in Mwanza, Tanzania, I met Francis, an American travel journalist who is currently in his grand tour of visiting all 54 African countries in 5 years’ time. He and I were both connected to the NGO through couchsurfing, and he was visiting my host in order to film the story of a NGO in Tanzania. I, therefore, had the chance to be his personal filming assistant for the day, and also got to know his inspiring travel stories.

The Unseen Africa
When people talk about Africa, there are always two extreme thoughts, heaven or hell. The heaven Africa is full of nature, tribes, pyramids, safaris. The hell Africa, on the other hand, is full of Aids, disasters, and now Ebola. However, the majority Africans do not live the extreme lives, Francis wants to capture sides of Africa which people did not hear about in media, which books and TV shows didn’t mention.

One example Francis shared was the Maasai, the most well-known tribe in Tanzania and Kenya, share only 2 % of the whole population. It shows how media emphasizes something small and makes it dominant and well known. He started his trip in March 2013 and aims to finish in Dec 2017, one country a month, to cover all 54 countries in Africa. He wants to help people understand all the little countries, especially in the west Africa, by filming different stories. After completing his Africa54 journey, Francis plans to publish a book “The Unseen Africa”, and also wish his filming clips will be purchased by National Geographic for documentary use.

The Talent from a Big City
Growing up in San Francisco, Francis had his first degree in Religion in Amherst College. After working in Latin America for 3 years, he studied MBA in Harvard University. Then he started his own company in Silicon Valley, and worked for 4 years in manufacturing inspection products.

Changing Point in Life
Francis did the Appalachian Trail in 2001 when he was 31, the trail was 3000km long and he spent 4 months hiking solo, on average 30-40km a day. It was the changing point of his life as he thought a lot during the solo hike.

Being surrounded by talents all the time, everyone was good at asking the billion dollars question, “How to make billion dollars?”. However, Francis decided to ask himself a different question, “What would you do with your time if you had billion dollars?” He knew many lawyers who would not be lawyers if they had billion dollars, and he knew many people totally forgot about their dreams after they got cars and houses. Many of his classmates were making lots of money and got paid very well after getting their MBA.

Finally, Francis found his answer, why he needed to wait till he had billion dollars to pursue his dream, why not changing his life he wanted to live and started living like a Billionaire. Francis wanted to be a travel writer, travel around the world, live with the locals, get to know people and share insights and experience. He wanted to inspire people in the world, and persuaded other people to pursue their own dreams.

Living the Dreams
After realizing what his dreams were, Francis needed to earn what he called the “Fxxk You Money”. With this money, anytime anywhere he could say “Fxxk you I am leaving”, no matters at work or in any relationships that he doesn’t enjoy. After his first solo hike, he spent another 4 years working in Silicon Valley as a consultant for Hitachi and Microsoft to earn enough “Fxxk You Money”. He then never works again since 2006 and only earns through investment. Francis believes if you do what you love, money will come. If you pursue your passion, you will find a way to make money by doing that passion.

In total Francis has walked across America 4 times. He did his second one, the Pacific Crest Trail, 4200km and completed in 4 months in 2006 when he was 36. His third one was the Continental Divide Trail, 7000km as he did a round trip and spent 7 months in 2007 when he was 37. The three trails he did are called the Triple Crowns in USA. To share his insights and experiences, Francis published his first book “Hike Your Own Hike”.

In 2008, Francis started his world trip. He spent 3 years in the eastern part of Europe till 2011, and published his second book “The Hidden Europe”.

The Never Ending Gap year
Francis joked that he is now having his 8th Gap Year. He has no plan to settle down in one country in the next 10 years, he may do so if he feels really tired, and has a little home in a village. His other travel plans include the Middle East, from Pakistan to Israel, and from India to the east part of Asia and Russia, last but not least, get a sailing boat to travel the Pacific Ocean including Australia, New Zealand and all the islands. However, he believes once you take a gap year, you are addicted to it and knows it is not that hard to go back to work, or to reintegrate, or to find a place to live. How easy it is to leave things behind, and one can do it again anytime anywhere.

Francis thinks he is now living his dream, and rated 9/10 on his happiness scale. He has no plan to have kids as they limit his freedom, however, it will be better if he can find his travel companion, and has the extra money to stay in nice hotels once in a while. He believes what he is doing now is just a different way of life, and would rather to focus on himself and try to inspire people as a way of giving back to the society, like giving TED talks and writing books. 

“Don’t be afraid of death, be afraid of an unlived life. You don’t have to live forever, you just have to live” by Natalie Babbitt, an American writer, Francis shared his favorite quote with me. Malaria killed 1 million people every year in Africa, while Ebola only killed 5 thousands so far. Car accidents are preventable but people still don’t wear seatbelts in cars or wear helmets on motorbikes. Francis would rather enjoy his time traveling than worrying unpredictable things.


At last, Francis gave me his name card of Africa54.com as the present for exchange. He also wrote on the back of the card “Whatever is your #1 dream, you will achieve it”, a word for my next interviewee.

在坦桑尼亞女童院逗留兩星期當義工的中段,我遇上了Francis,一個來自美國的旅行記者,現在正花五年時間旅訪全非洲的五十四個國家。他和我一樣因為借宿網站而來到這家女童院,當天正打算跟院舍創辦人做錄影採訪,了解一下坦桑尼亞非營利機構的運作模式,於是我有機會當了他一天的私人錄影助理,也有機會了解他多采多姿的旅遊故事。

不為人知的非洲
當人們談論非洲,常常都只有兩種極端 - 天堂與地獄。天堂一樣的非洲滿佈大自然、土著部落、金字塔、野生動物;地獄一樣的非洲則充斥著愛滋病、災難,現在還有伊波拉病毒。不過,事實上非洲並不是只存在於這兩種極端環境中的, Francis希望能採訪人們沒有聽過看過的一面,電視節目和書籍都沒有報導或提及過的東西。

Francis舉出馬賽部落的例子,他們是全坦桑尼亞和肯亞最著名的土著,但人口卻原來只佔兩巴仙而已,可知傳媒報導怎樣能夠把細微的東西無限放大。Francis去年三月開始旅程,打算2017年底結束,一個月遊歷一個國家,直至走訪全非洲54個國家為止。他沿途一直錄影和採訪相遇的人和事,因為想讓人們明白和了解西非其實還有很多小國存在。暫時的計劃是旅途後出版一本書,還希望自己錄製的片段會被國家地理頻道所採用。

來自大城市的才俊
在三藩市長大, Francis的本科主修宗教,在拉丁美洲工作三年後,他到哈佛唸工商管理碩士,然後在矽谷開了一間公司,做了四年品質檢定的生意。

改寫一生的獨行
2001年,Francis 31歲的時候進行了一生中第一次的長途徒步遠足,全長三千公里的Appalachian Trail,他花了四個月時間獨行,平均每天走三四十公里,那是他人生的轉捩點,一個人的旅途讓他好好沉澱和思考自己的生命。

從前生命中都被才俊所包圍,大家最擅長發問的問題是「怎樣賺取一億萬元?」但是Francis決定問自己一條不一樣的問題,「若果你已經擁有一億萬元,你會怎樣過生活?」他認識很多律師朋友,若果他們有一億萬元是不會當律師的,他也知道很多人有車有樓後亦已忘記了自己的夢想,從前唸工商管理的同學每個人亦也在忙於賺大錢。

最後, Francis找到了答案,為甚麼要等至自己擁有一千萬才去追夢呢?為甚麼不立即改變生命,現在就活得像個億萬富翁呢?Francis希望能當個旅遊作家,環遊世界,和當地人一起生活,認識別人,交流視野和經驗。他想要啟發身邊和世界各地的人,鼓勵別人去追夢。

活出夢想
確認了自己的夢想後,Francis需要賺取他所稱為的「X你錢」,有足夠的「X你錢」後,何時何地遇上不喜歡的工作環境或是人際關係,他都可以說「X你,我走了」。當他完成第一次徒步遠足後,他又花了四年在矽谷工作,在日立和微軟做咨詢工作去賺取他的「X你錢」。自2006年起Francis已經再沒有上班工作了,他只是靠投資來賺取收入,因為他相信,只要你做你喜歡的事情,金錢會自然跑來,只要你勇敢追夢,你定會找到方法賺錢。

總共走遍美國四次,Francis第二次的徒步遠足是在2006年完成的Pacific Crest Trail,他36歲的時候花了四個月來完成的四千二百公里。第三次是Continental Divide Trail,他來回走了一圈,共七千公里,在200737歲時共花了七個月時間完成。他徒步走過的三條路線在美國稱為「三個皇冠」,為了分享自己的得著和經驗,他出了第一本書「走自己的路」(Hike Your Own Hike)

2008年,Francis正式開展他的環遊世界之旅,共花了三年時間走訪東歐,然後又出版了第二本書籍「隱蔽的歐洲」(The Hidden Europe)

永不完結的間隔年
Francis笑說這是已經是他第八年的間隔年,未來十年他都沒有計劃在同一個國家停留長住,除非真的厭倦了旅行那可能會找一個小村落居住。他未來的旅途計劃包括中東,由巴基斯坦到以色列,然後是由印度到亞洲的東部和俄羅斯,最後,是買一艘帆船暢遊太平洋,遊歷澳洲、新西蘭和其餘島嶼。不過他相信,只要你曾經經歷過間隔年,你就像上了癮一樣,因為你知道回去找工作,或是重新融入社會,或是找一個地方居住,通通都不是那麼困難的事情。放下出走其實是一件很容易的事,何時何地都可以重新開始。

Francis覺得自己正在活出夢想,快樂指數有九分。他沒打算生兒育女,因為太防禦自由了,不過,他仍希望能找到一個願意和他同行的女伴,和有餘錢間中入住高級旅館。現在自己過的是不一樣的生活,他寧願把精力集中在自己身上,做TED演說和出版書籍去鼓勵別人和回饋社會。

「不要害怕死亡,寧願害怕一場沒有活過的生命;你不需要永遠生存,你只需要活著」,一位美國兒童文學作家Natalie Babbitt說的,這是Francis最愛的座右銘。在非洲每年有一百萬人因為瘧疾而死亡,但暫時卻只有五千人因為伊波接而過身。車禍可以避免,但仍然很多人不配戴安全帶或電單車頭盔。Francis寧願好好享受他的旅行,多於擔憂不能預計的東西。

最後, Francis給了我一張他Africa54.com的名片作交換禮物,他在卡後寫著「只要是放在第一位的夢想就必能實現」以鼓勵下一位追夢者。


旅行 原來是一場修行

也許,愉快和傷感必須要相對並存的。沒有悲傷,那裏會珍惜歡愉的可貴;沒有體驗過山谷的幽暗,那裏會懂得山頂的光明;未曾嘗試跌過落谷底,怎會知道一望無際的美好

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Ochivaye Dreams 中東空姐 繼續流浪+尋夢去

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每次有人出國或遠行,我們總習慣祝福別人「旅途愉快」,但旅途愉快真的是必然的嗎?天氣晴朗、行程順利、交通無阻、行李安全、身體健康,是否這些事情都達標便代表旅途一定愉快呢?

轉眼間,流浪出門已經八個月,原來,就算以上的情況都達標,也不一定代表旅程必定愉快的。一個人旅行,沒有意見不合的旅伴,卻會和自己內心爭吵,忘記了自己為甚麼會在這裏,質疑自己到底在幹甚麼。明明事事順境,一切安好,沒有不幸的事情發生,情緒,卻會不期然地跌入谷底,沒有別人的挑釁,卻自己跟自己鬧情緒,但其實自己也攪不懂到底發生甚麼事。

現代人習慣了依靠外物去令自己歡愉和快樂,上一次感到喜悅是甚麼時候?對學生來說可能是成績優異,入讀理想的學校;對在職人士來說可能是升職加人工;對旅者來說可能是遊覽了某個景點,或是征服了某個高峰。但現在不是主張學習做情緒的主人,不要把好心情寄託在外物之上嗎?就算烏雲蓋頂、狂風暴雨,心情也可以像天氣晴朗一樣風和日麗的。若果以這種邏輯思考,心情是不應依靠外在事物,因為心情是可以由內控制的。就如佛家所說,大喜大落是沒有意思的,因為一切事物都是不永久的,會來也會去,因為外物而影響心情是沒有意義的。有一陣子,我以為自己也有所頓悟了,放下了對外間的依賴和執著,自己做情緒的主人。平平淡淡的一天,內心卻充滿喜悅平安的感覺,沒有外物的觸動,完完全全由內而外發放的正能量。但原來,凡事是相向的,當正面情緒不需要原因時,負面情緒也一樣。同樣不需要任何外物的觸動,情緒卻不知不覺間跌至谷底,內心不由自主地悲憫起來,世間上好像只剩下負能量一樣。


也許,愉快和傷感必須要相對並存的。沒有悲傷,那裏會珍惜歡愉的可貴;沒有體驗過山谷的幽暗,那裏會懂得山頂的光明;未曾嘗試跌過落谷底,怎會知道一望無際的美好。原來,旅途就不應只有愉快的感覺。生命無常,人生起跌有時,也許,這些都是修行的一種,學會與自己內心溝通,學會聆聽內心的呼喚,學會明白內心的需要,學會體諒內心的無奈,學會了解內心的起伏。或許有一天,任何時候心境都能平靜如鏡,感到一切事情都平安順境美好,不受外界任何喜怒哀樂的干擾,不帶高低起伏,那,就如佛家所說,真的是大師級的境界了。

Moshi, Tanzania - Oct 2014

2014/10/22

Ochivaye Dreams 14­­ – Dream of Helping the Village Children of a Tanzanian Volunteer Leader 夢想專訪14 –坦桑尼亞義工領袖的救助兒童夢

"Achieving dreams is never simple, one needs to give up other things to make a dream comes true"
"追夢永遠不是一件輕而易舉的事情,人們常常需要放棄一些東西才能夠夢想成真"

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Peter was my couchsurfing host in Moshi, Tanzania. He was very new in Couchsurfing and had only 1 reference on his profile. He mentioned that he is running a NGO which works with the village children. In Tanzania, there are a lot of NGOs bringing in foreign volunteers to help in different projects but at the same time charging a questionable high cost. However, the only reference on Peter’s profile described it was a very meaningful experience to work at the NGO and so I decided to stay with him and find out more about the project.

Dream, should not only be in the Mind
When Peter was a child, he had so many dreams. He wanted to be a priest, a doctor, a teacher, etc. When he was in secondary school, he made up his mind he wanted to be a priest so that he could go around and preach with people. However, an incident he encountered during his high school period changed his dream again.

During a long holiday in his high school period, Peter had a chance to do volunteer work with the Student Association. They got donations from parents and use them to buy gifts to the children in need. They went to the poor villages a few times and met some very poor children and distributed the gifts. Peter was surprised how worse the poverty situation the children were living in. When he went back to his village, he realized similar problem also existed in his village. There was no NGO in his village doing any intervention to the community either. From that time on, Peter decided to work in his own community in the future and help the children in need.

The Beginning is always the Hardest Part
It would not be a simple thing to do, for sure. Peter knew he needed to gain knowledge in the University first, and to register the project. He got very good grades in high school and was selected by the government to go to a good University in Dar, the capital of Tanzania, to study Political Science. However, Peter knew it wasn’t his ambition and he wanted to study something that would take him to achieve his dream in the future. He told his mom and brother his thought and got their understanding and support.    

Peter applied a 3 year degree program “Community Economic Development” in Moshi University at the end. He learnt about research, management, writing proposals, etc. While he was still doing his degree, he decided to start his project. He wrote the constitution and registered his project in district level. He started to look for an office and was accepted by a private school to temporary use their extra classroom to locate an office and to conduct programs.

Achieving dreams is never simple, one needs to give up other things to make a dream comes true. All his schoolmates looked for employment after graduation. He, however, decided to take risk and spend 2 years to build the foundation of the NGO, as a volunteer. His friends got employed and received income to take care of their families. He decided he won’t do so until he achieved his dream of helping the children in his village. He named his NGO Kilimanjaro Children Empowering Foundation (KICEF), aiming to help the children and community in need.

At first Peter asked his friends to help in his NGO but they were not so supportive as they also had to earn an income before promising anything. He then approached some teachers, some aunties and even his mom who already have their own income source so that they can volunteer and give support to the project. Finally there are 7 founding members and 5 board members in the whole team.

Path, was created by People
The first project Peter started with was called “Childpreneurship”, a word combined from “Children” and “Entrepreneurship”. He wanted to look for children in need but were at least 8 years old, and got recommendation by the primary school teachers and village leaders for over 100 children. However, Peter decided to start with little and slowly according to his time and resources. He chose 10 children who lived very near to his home as he can only visit them by foot or bike.

The project aimed to help the children to run income projects at home for extra food and school supplies. They teach them how to grow vegetables, keep chicken and sell eggs. He suggests they use one hour everyday after school, not more than that because they should maintain their regular attendance in school while working for the project. They also teach the children how to use water effectively, how to save money, do marketing with neighbors and to invite neighbors to come and buy their vegetables and eggs. 

This year January Peter started his second project “Quality Life for Children”, aiming to take in children who are seriously in need of support, like homeless orphans who have no parents and get no support from relatives, to reside in their children centre and to receive education. Now he has taken in 2 children but is only borrowing the hostel from the school. He needs to find a fix location for hostel, and to get more resources like food, clothes, schools and medical items.

He hosted the first gathering for the children and their families from both projects last Saturday, and to congratulate those who just graduated from Primary School this year to show that even orphans can succeed in school if they work hard.

Dream, is supported by Bread
The 2 years will be up at the end of this year after Peter’s graduation from University. All the while he was only doing small jobs to support his own expenses, like teaching part time, doing gardening at home and selling vegetables. Since last month he has started to send out job applications regarding community jobs. Of course if he has capital he would prefer to run a business so that he will have the freedom to continue supervising his projects. However, it is easier to find an employment than to do a business.

In the middle of Difficulty, lies Opportunity
KICEF is now 2 years old, but still there are a lot of things to be done to become sustainable in the long run. First it needs a permanent address to locate the office and hostel for the Children Centre. Peter just got a land from the village government and he will now need to write a proposal to get donations and sponsorship of resources to build the buildings. He will also need to get more people to work in the team. There is still a long way to go till everything becomes true.

One idea Peter has is to sell solar run radios in his NGO to the villagers. He has a radio ran by solar energy at home, a gift his mother received by the school she worked at. Peter never saw where they are sold on the street. However, it was made in China and may be I could help to find out where they are sold in China. Many people from his village have no power access at home and no access to news as a result. Batteries run radios need to buy disposable batteries which are expensive and cause pollution as well. If KICEF could get a sponsorship of the solar run radios, he could sell them to the villagers. The villagers can get access to the news and information and get empowered, at the same time, he can get an income to sustain his NGO projects. It is a win win situation.

Another difficulty KICEF faces is failing to get volunteers and visitors due to the long distance from Moshi town. His village Kahe is 22km away from town and needs at least 1 hour minibus ride. There is a well-known agent in Moshi which connects foreign volunteers and local NGOs. He tried asking for help before but the agent refused to put his NGO on their list because the village is too far away and the transportation fee of volunteers would be very expensive. Now Peter hopes Couchsurfing can bring in individual volunteers to help in his projects instead. However, Peter believes one good thing of getting individual volunteers instead is the volunteers do not need to pay the high cost the agent is charging and could use the money directly to buy resources for the community. His first couchsurfing guests were 3 girls from Germany and they helped to purchase materials like mattress, food, clothes, shoes, books to the children in need.

Think about the Source when Drinking Water
Peter shared his favorite moral with me. When a village always suffered with hunger, the villagers still gave out everything they had to a youngster to go far to look for more food for the village. If the youngster stayed in town by himself and didn’t go back to the village, it is called betrayal. It is a metaphor for the opportunity of receiving education. After finishing education, someone should go back to the community he grew up and use his knowledge there, not to stay in town and let the community suffers.

Peter gave me a pair of earrings as the present for exchange. He found this pair of earrings lying around in his files. He asked around but couldn’t find the owner. Peter believe the earrings are a good memory to remind oneself to pursue dreams as they don’t expire and can be kept very long. If the next interviewee is a girl, she can just keep them and wear them directly. If he is a guy, he can give them to his girlfriend or wife to strengthen the relationship when achieving the dream together.

Peter是我在坦桑尼亞Moshi鎮的沙發主人,不久前他才剛在借宿網站注冊,因此簡介內只有一位友人留言,他又提及自己正在營運一間非營利機構,為村落兒童服務。在坦桑尼亞,到處都有人開辦非營利機構安排外國義工到坦桑尼亞做義工服務,卻同時收取一筆高昂的行政費用。不過,Peter 簡介內的唯一留言卻提到那是一次難能可貴的經歷,於是我也決定要了解一下他的機構。

不應只是想
跟很多小孩子一樣,Peter小時候已經有很多夢想,他想過當牧師、醫生、老師。當他唸中學時,發覺自己當牧師的興趣最大,又可以到處去傳道,但高中時候的一次經歷卻再次改變他的想法。

唸高中的時候,Peter有機會跟學生組織做義工服務,他們用家長的捐款來買禮物送給窮困村落有需要的小孩子。Peter對於農村貧困的情況感到很驚訝,當回到自己成長的村落後,卻發覺那裏原來也有類似的情況,同樣沒有任何社褔機構做介入工作,那個時候開始,Peter下定決心將來要在自己的社區工作,幫助有需要的小孩子。

萬事起頭難
Peter清楚知道,這個夢想並不是一件簡單的事情,他首先要上大學學習所需的知識,然後注冊他想營運的項目。由於高中成績優秀,Peter被政府挑選到首都唸大學主修政治科學,不過心裏卻知道那不是他要走的方向,他希望能修讀一些能幫助實踐理想的科目。跟媽媽和哥哥分享了自己的想法後,同樣得到他們的明白和支持。

最後,PeterMoshi大學主修一個「社區經濟發展」的三年本科課程,學習做硏究、管理、寫計劃書。還在唸大學的時候,Peter決定正式開始他的項目,他寫好約章後在區內注冊機構,又找到一家私校願意借出課室予他當臨時辦公室和舉辦活動之用。

追夢永遠不是一件輕而易舉的事情,人們常常需要放棄一些東西才能夠夢想成真。大學同學畢業後都積極找工作,Peter卻決定要花兩年時間以義工身分去建立和穩固他營運機構的基礎。友人都找到工作有收入照顧家庭,他卻決定要先幫助村內小孩子,最後機構訂名為Kilimanjaro Children Empowering Foundation (KICEF),以幫助社區內有需要的小孩子為目標。

起初Peter叫身邊友人幫忙支持他的機構但他們卻沒有很熱心,因為很多人其實也需要先賺取收入才能答應幫忙其他事情。於是他嘗試接觸一些老師、阿姨,甚至他的媽媽,他們都有正職有收入可以以義工身分幫忙支援他的機構。最後Peter成功找到七名創辦成員和五名董事成員。

是人行出來的
機構第一個發展的項目叫 Childpreneurship,是「小孩」和「企業」兩個英文字合併而成的。Peter希望接觸八歲以上有需要的小孩子,於是叫小學老師和村內領袖幫忙推薦,最終收到過百名學生的資料。不過,Peter決定貴精不貴多,根據自己的時間和資源,他挑選了十名住在他家附近的小孩,因為他只可以以走路或騎自行車的方式去探訪他們。

這個項目是希望幫助小孩子在家中營運有收入的項目,以便可以購置額外的食物和文具。他們教小孩子怎樣種菜、養雞和賣雞蛋,又建議小孩每天放學後只用一個小時去管理這些項目,因為學生最終還是應該以上學讀書為上。他們也教小孩子怎樣珍惜水源、怎樣省錢,和怎樣邀請鄰居到自己家中買菜和雞蛋等。

今年一月Peter開始了第二個項目「小孩子的優質生活」,旨在收容嚴重需要支援,像沒有父母和沒有親屬照顧的小孩子到兒童中心住宿和接受教育。現在中心收容了兩位小孩,但由於暫時機構只是借用私校的宿舍,Peter需要尋找一個固定地點成立中心,以及獲取食物、衣服、文具和醫療用品等資源贊助。

上週六機構舉辦了一個大食會讓兩個項目的小孩和親友參與,也為數個剛小學畢業的小孩慶祝,證明就算是家境清貧的孤兒只要努力也可以在學業上獲取成功的。

追夢 還是需要麵包
今年底Peter已經大學畢業兩個年頭,意味他給自己的限期即將屆滿。兩年來Peter都是做兼職為生而已,像做助教、在家種菜和賣菜。上月起他開始發出有關社區工作的求職信,Peter笑說,若果有資金的話他當然希望能夠做生意,然後可以繼續自由自在地督導他的項目,不過,找工作永遠都是比做生意容易的。

是危 還是機
KICEF今年成立兩週年,但要持續發展的話仍然有很多進步空間。首先機構需要一個自己的辦公室和宿舍,村政府給了他們一塊土地,現在Peter需要寫計劃書找捐款和資源贊助興建大樓,另外他需要更多熱心人士加入他的團隊,KICEF前面還有很漫長的路要走。

Peter跟我分享了他的一個想法,是在機構銷售太陽能收音機給村民。他家中有一台太陽能收音機,是他媽媽在工作的學校收到的禮物,但他卻從來沒有在街上看過這類收音機銷售。由於那是中國製造的收音機,Peter想也許我可以幫忙找到它的廠商。很多村民家中沒有電力供應於是也無法接觸新聞資訊,電池運作的收音機需要購買費用高昂的電池,之後也會造成污染問題。若果機構可以找到廠商贊助太陽能收音機,可以賣給村民增加他們獲取新聞資訊的機會,同時也可以增加機構的收入營運項目,將會是一件雙贏的事情。

機構另一個困境是缺乏義工和訪客,由於距離市區太遠,離最近的小鎮也有22公里,需要足足一個小時的小巴車程才能抵達。在Moshi市區有一間著名的義工中介公司連繫外國義工到本地社福機構,Peter嘗試跟他們合作卻遭到拒絕,原因是他的機構太偏僻,若果安排義工到訪的話交通費用會非常高昂。現在他希望透過借宿網站接觸個別有興趣的義工到機構參觀或幫忙,其實,個別義工不需要經中介公司介紹還可以省卻一筆高昂的行政費用,義工更可以把金錢直接花在有需要的村民身上以購買各種資源和用品。Peter第一批借宿客人是三位來自德國的女生,她們抵埗後看見村民的需要便主動幫忙購置床舖用品、食物、衣服、鞋子、書本給有需要的家庭和小孩。

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Peter跟我分享他的座右銘,當一條村莊時常鬧饑荒,村民仍然願意奉獻僅有的食糧讓年青人上路到其他地方幫忙找尋糧食回村落。若果年青人到達市區後卻不再返回農村,那就是忘本。這好比接受教育的機會,當完成高等教育後,人們應該回到自己成長的社區服務,用自己的知識幫助社區進步,不是獨自留在市區讓鄉村村民繼續活在困難之中。

Peter送給我一對耳環作交換禮物,他是在自己的文件堆中發現這對無人認領的耳環的。耳環不會到期,可以保存很久,很適合作為提醒自己去追夢的紀念品。若果下一位受訪者是女生,她可以自己佩帶;若果是男生,他應該把耳環送給女朋友或太太,然後一起追夢,更有助鞏固大家的關係。